no worries Kwisatz, I totally understand, kidz before gamez! Playtime with your kidz sounds fun, but I hope they release you sometime today
Yes, coop would probably be best to start with. Because you'll be the host (less lag for you), I don't think we'll get the option to play the Kobin missions until after you've rescued him early in the single player campaign.
...here are the three playstyles (I normally play panther, but I'm totally happy playing whatever style you favor):
Ghost - non-lethal stealth, I think with maximum points for totally avoiding everyone and being never seen
Panther - lethal stealth, killing or k.o. everyone without raising the alarm
Assault - open warfare. using grenades and loud weapons
...and here are the co-op missions
Grim - ghost or panther, no assault... we can't raise the alarm so these missions can be tricky if you are fresh to things
Charlie - horde mode, which means panther or assault to kill waves of enemies
Briggs - mix of all 3 styles
Kobin - panther or assault, must kill or k.o. everyone on the level.. but if we raise the alarm, the guards get a lot of reinforcements (they roughly double in number)
Before you join, I'll try the headset to see if there is a native comms option.